As many others level out, that presented Spider-Man's Hero with Bad Publicity status and the actuality that equally of Peter's 1st girlfriends (Betty Brant, Gwen Stacy) uncritically accepted Jameson's sights which Mary Jane never did, this quantities to misreading the whole context and shoehorning a sexist Silver Age Lois/Superman dynamic on a setup that specifically deconstructed it, and presented that Peter is canonically a person who grew up.