But it’s under no circumstances been that black and white, and I will now tell you what I wish I could explain to my 15-year-old self: Just mainly because he’s your boyfriend does not suggest he can not assault you. My boyfriend and I have worked out what consent appears to be like for us. MeToo, the debate about how to tackle sexual consent has grow to be louder than at any time. It’s not a healthful sexual face without full consent.