Understanding that you always have choices (again, plural), and getting in the habit of making better ones is a sure ticket to your success. The more you do it, the better you will get...if you so choose.

You will not see this until you are very old. Frank Sinatra's songs were not about Frank Sinatra. All of his song was about the listener. Pete Fountain's music is not about Pete, it is about the listeners to his music.