What happened was, the butterfly spent the rest of his life crawling on his little body, unable to use its stunted wings. What the man in his hasty goodness, did not realize, was that the tight cocoon is a test of nature, that forces the butterfly to train its wings.

Your 'why' is the reason you are doing something, and when you know your why, you can start reworking on the 'how' you are going to achieve it.